Healing from an affair program The discovery of an affair often leads to enormous shock and anger, emotional pain and sadness. Trust and security have been damaged. It might seem you can’t get past it: every time you try to talk about it together emotions flare up and you don’t seem to be able to hear each other. You might have evenstopped addressing it to avoid conflict and further damage to the relationship. This all makes it difficult to process what has been happening and get to the healing of this emotional and relational wound. In these situations it would be helpful for you to get the support of a trained professional. I can facilitate both of you in talking together and guide you through the process of repairing this emotional wound and recovering hope. I can help you to say "sorry" in a way that resonates, to understand each other and to make sense of what happened. Regular online or "in person" sessions are possible, or an intensive treatment.